The Importance of Friendship and the People You Associate With
Hello Red Carpet Girl!
Friendship is one of life’s greatest gifts. I have a friend, you have a friend, all of us have friends. As young girls, the friendships we build can affect who we are, who we become, and the dreams we pursue. But have you ever thought about how your friends influence your choices, your behavior, and your future? Let’s talk about why the people you associate with matter so much and how to choose friendships that will truly lift you up.
Friendships are more than just fun bonding and chats. Your friends are like mirrors—they reflect your personality, your habits, and even your mindset. Surrounding yourself with supportive, positive friends can encourage you to be your best self. On the other side, negative associations or friendships can hold you back or lead you down the wrong path. If you surround yourself with friends who are hardworking and uplifting, you are more likely adopt those same qualities. But if you are surrounded by negativity or unhealthy habits, you might fall into the same actions as well.
Signs of a Healthy Friendship
● Support: A good friend listens to your problem and then asks questions to help you discover your best solution while sharing a story that might bring another point of view. When you win, they celebrate with you. They stand by you at your worst and at your best.
● Honesty: A good friend doesn’t lie; they stand by the truth even when it’s hard.
● Respect: A good friend values your boundaries, opinions, and feelings.
● Growth: A good friend encourages you to reach your goal and be the best version of yourself. As a matter of fact, A good friend will grow with you, and you will reach your goals together.
If your friend has these qualities, treasure them!
Good friends aren't “perfect” people. Good friends inspire and support you. Look for friends who value what’s important to you. And surround yourself with people who make you feel good about them and yourself. Affirm: I am love, I am light, I am worthy of the best
The Impact of Negative Associations
It is okay to admit that not all friendships are good for you. Sometimes, we hold on to toxic friendships because of the fear of being alone. But remember, it is better to have a small circle, with few genuine and uplifting friends, than a big group that: drains your energy, damages your self-esteem, competes with you, and encourages unhealthy behavior.
Letting go of toxic friendships is not easy, especially when you have a history and a long connection. But it’s brave to let go to protect your peace and happiness. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and explore new circles. Affirm: I love myself and I am safe, all is well.
Conclusion
“Show me your friends, and I’ll show you your future.” This saying reminds us of just how powerful our associations can be. Take a moment to reflect on your friendships and the people that surround you. Are they helping you grow? Do they bring genuine joy and peace into your life? If not, it’s never too late to make changes and choose the friendships that truly matter. Lastly, Friendships are a two-way street; it’s a give-and-take relationship. So make sure you’re also embodying the qualities you look for in others. That’s the real definition of friendship.
This is a friendly reminder that I believe in the power of friendship, and I believe in you! So, if you ever need someone to listen to your stories, to support you. I just want to let you know that I am here, I can be your friend.
I Love you!
Natasha Simone
Executive Lead Ambassador
Avenues of Excellence
@IamNatashasimone
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